At some point in romantic relationships, most men receive
a call — or an ultimatum — to step up.

Sometimes that’s being told we’re too “emotionally closed-off” and to “be more open”

Sometimes it’s being accused of being “overly defensive” and “not listening” during a fight

Oftentimes it boils down to being asked to be more present, more available, more attentive…

AND…

There are two things that I’ve learned from working with hundreds of boys and men:

First:

Most of us want to fix these problems, and show up in service of our love,
even if that means doing some humbling self-inquiry.

Second:

Most of us — FOR VERY GOOD REASON — have no idea how to actually start doing what’s being asked of us:

how to be less emotionally closed, less defensive, and more present.

Most of us never saw a model of a man that expressed his emotions and mastered his anger…

Most of us needed to armor up as children and disengage when things hurt…

All of this works against us in intimacy….

When the one we love wants to feel what’s underneath the armor.

What I’ve seen time and again is that
the harder we try, the worse things often get.

We try to listen, but then the issue changes.

We try to open up, but we’re not really feeling it, or we don’t even get why we’re being called out like this.

We try to show up and show we care, but we can’t seem to get it right.

And that’s when the conflict really starts…

We’re upset. They’re upset.

Yelling, doors slamming, words both of us will regret.

When I was in the depths of this part of my own relationship’s conflict cycle…

I decided I needed to change something.

Yes, the men’s circles, the therapy, the healing work I was doing helped, but…

I wanted a system that I could implement in real-time — on my own — to never again have to feel the way I felt at the worst times in my relationship.

From that moment of turmoil, I developed a powerful and incredibly simple system for men to heal their relationships from the inside out.

Are you ready?

Because the truth is…

Countless men are struggling in romantic relationships and no one seems to be talking about how we can
fundamentally change the dynamic.

But we can.

You don’t need to spend years of your life or tens of thousands of dollars on therapy, coaching, men’s groups, retreats, study, and alternative practices…


Those are great and valuable, and will all probably serve you on your journey, but for men that are in the thick of it, looking for a way to change the trajectory, stuck in an unending loop of the same fight, circling the same sore subject without any resolution…

I’ve developed a 21-day process that genuinely works.

I built this for men in committed relationships with women that are struggling to earn her respect, patience, compassion, and trust.

This course is designed to get you huge results for your relationship in the simplest possible way.

This is for you if experienced any of the following:

⚠️ In a fight, she’ll say whatever she wants and blow up when you try to say your piece.

⚠️ When either of you are stressed, you feel like you don’t even get a second to think about what you want to say.

⚠️ If she’s hurt, she doesn’t care that you made a mistake, and you keep having to apologize 100 times or more.

⚠️ In general, you feel like everything you’re doing is being watched and judged, and you’ll probably be criticized for “doing it wrong” later.

And if you’re trying to fix one or more of these issues in your relationship, I want you to know that it can change if YOU take action.

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After leading men’s circles and working with men and couples in relationship for years, I’ve discovered something I don’t think anyone has actually addressed effectively.

It’s this:

And those strategies you used as a boy don’t help you as a man in relationship…

🛑 Sucking it up and staying silent?
🔻Doesn't change anything.

🛑 Pretending her words don’t hurt and just moving on?
🔻Makes you resentful.

🛑Running away when she loses control?
🔻Gets you nowhere.

🛑 Blowing up because you can’t take anymore?
🔻Only makes things worse.

🛑Sacrificing your needs while enduring criticism and disrespect?
🔻Keeps you stuck in the same cycle.

Your romantic relationship doesn’t have to be this way, and you have the power to change it YOURSELF, right now.

If what I’ve described is even close to what your relationship is like, you’re being initiated into partnership in a way that most men are too afraid to try. 

But if you’ve read this far, I’m guessing that’s not you.

Many men just default to using the skills they learned as boys — to “suck it up, stop being a pussy, and deal” — especially when things are getting hard and their loving partner suddenly isn’t acting so kindly. 

It’s why half of all marriages end in divorce.

It’s why 63% of men under 30 are single. 

It’s why men are nearly 4x more likely to die by suicide than women.

It’s why we are where we are collectively, as a society.

And here you are, doing what you’ve always done in relationships and expecting a different outcome.

Let’s be clear too:

While more and more influencers and are telling men to change these chilling statistics by occupying a narrow alpha-identity that blames women for our struggles, the truth is that our growth and evolution is our responsibility, and YOU are the only person that can know what your most fulfilling and aligned life and relationship will look like.

Sacrificing your time, money, and resources for peace in your relationship is not a long term strategy no matter what you’ve learned or what’s “worked” in the past…

In this 21-day program, you’ll discover your own unique recipe of well-being in relationship by discovering where that armor you’ve been wearing unconsciously is most dense, most calcified, and most stuck, so that you can regain access to your sense of purpose, freedom, desires, wants, and needs.

The only reason any of these human needs might feel like a mystery to you is probably because you’ve never gotten to experience real safety to explore what you truly want in relationship.

You can blame a hundred different things or people,

But in the end, ascribing fault will do nothing for you.

The highest service you can give to yourself and your love is to learn to heal and know yourself, to allow yourself to confront whatever gets in the way of you deepening intimacy, and to once and for all commit to showing up more fully in love.

While your journey won’t be done after 21 days, the program will give you back the time and energy your losing from bad conflict dynamics and overgrown resentment.

Here’s my promise to you:

In 21 days, I’ll give you everything you need to
transform your relationship.

And if it doesn’t work?

I’ll give you your money back.

Seriously.

If you’re unsure if this is right for you, I want to make it really simple and easy to try.

My goal is to help people experience the power of growth and surrender in love, so…

If you go through this course for 3 weeks and haven’t gotten what you want out of it, I’m offering a 100% refund guaranteed if you have done the journaling exercises. 

That’s it. Just send me a screenshot of the completed books and I’ll send the money right back to you. No fuss, no hard feelings.